Category Archives: Relationships

Chronic Dating

I’ve been meaning to write this one for quite some time. As a qualified relationship and psychosexual therapist who is also chronically ill who better to write about it! This is mainly based on my experiences with dating whilst stuck … Continue reading

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The lurgies got me again.

Just when everything was going so well and I had been bug free for 2 months, I came down with yet another horrid virus on Sat. It was also the day it was very likely I would meet Mr V … Continue reading

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Meeting Mr V?

If you’re a regular reader you’ll know I have been chatting online and texting/phone calls with a man I met online quite some time ago, getting on for a year in fact. He doesn’t seem worried I am chronically ill … Continue reading

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If you’re happy and you know it…

clap your hands! *Stands up and starts clapping manically like a seal* I haven’t gone crazy, don’t worry! I’m just feeling happier, proud of myself and more motivated than I have in a while. I’m still suffering somewhat with this … Continue reading

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What else will break down?

Everything seems to be happening to me at once. I ate something with gluten in on Thurs and have had a bad stomach and exhaustion since. Ok, I did accidentally eat it on purpose, oooh you got me, ok then … Continue reading

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and then there was one…

Wow, what a few days it has been! I came right out with it yesterday and told Mr ‘ex, I want you back’ (I’m running out of names for them all!) that it wouldn’t work and he seemed to take … Continue reading

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Men are like buses…

nothing for ages, then three come along at once. Mr V is back chatting away to me like nothing happened, Mr N asked to see me again (and is very keen) but is still unsure of my situation and is … Continue reading

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Meeting Mr N

I am so tired today due to a bad nights sleep, so forgive me if there’s a ton of spelling/grammar mistakes! Well, yesterday I met Mr N! He turned out to be exactly the way he is online, he’s very … Continue reading

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Zapping my hairs away!

For someone who is pretty much stuck in one room and a bed all the time, you’d think I wouldn’t bother too much with prettying (is that even a word?) up myself, after all I don’t see a lot of … Continue reading

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And a new year begins…

and I hope it’s much better than the last! So far not too bad! I have felt a bit more energised recently and have got stuck in with various things, such as some serious Wow playing, a little bit of … Continue reading

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